~~ To My YounG FriEnd~~

Try to be as active as posible. Just by being young you possess a treasure more valueble than power or frame. To be young is to hav hope,passion n freedom.

Youth is a time rapid change, frm day to day n moment to moment. It can also be a time of confusion. You may feel as if u r standing alone in a wasteland or on a battlefield. Smtime u may thk u cannot believe in anyone, that no one loves u, or even that u hav no reason to live.

You may hav problems at home, with money or health, wit how u feel bout ur looks, wit member opposite sex, or wit friend. Frm feeling confident n upbeat one moment, u may be overwhelmed wit insecurity, frustration or apathly the mext.

U may hav fundamental questions bout urself n ur identity:Who am i? Wat should i do wit my life? iT is quite natural to feel unsure bout d best way to proceed. If u hav not yet decided on ur future course, i feel d best thing is juz to concentrate ur energies on wat u need to do rigth now, n gradually ur full potential will emerge.

The most inportant thing is not to give up on urself when u r young,giving in to negativity or cynicism. Do not compare urself wit others. Be true to who u r n try to cherish n feel content wit ur own irreplaceable life. Even if u r smtimeslaughed at, or ppl let u down, keep going 4ward n nvr let urself be defeated.

setting urself targets is a good idea. Even if u hav d tendencyto only stick at smthing 4 two or three days, juz keep renewing ur determination. when u r studing n u think, "i cant do any more, i wan to go out", u may decide to challenge urself to keep going 4 juz another 5 mins. Ppl who can persevere even this much ll achieve great things in life.

A smoothe, easy life in which everything goes ur way may seem great, but u ll not able to develop ur character if everything always works out according to plan. U may even bcome spoiled -a person who cannot think bout others n who is no help when things get tough.

If ur parents r poor or lacking education, or they r oways quarrelling wit each other, try not to think urself unlucky. this is a tryly human situation that ll help u develop as a person. u may feel it would hav been better to b born into rich or successful family. But often ppl who grow up in such a world act like well-behaved automatons, bound by formality, trdition n appearances, lacking genuine warmth n spontaneity.

there is no such thing as a whole life of smooth sailing. Therefore, u do urself a favour by talking on dificult challenge, forging n strengthening urself in your youth, while u r healthy n strong. I hope u can see all difficulties as the material that will enable u to develop a big heart n bcome ppl of depth n substance.

try to be as active a positive. juz by being young u possess a treasure more valuable than power or fame. to be young is to hav hope, passion n freedom. ur whole life lies ahead of u, brimming wit possibilities.

Even if u feel powerless, that it is difficult to believe in urself, pls try not to easily swayed by the views of others, n hold true to wat u know is right. Try to believe in urself. i hope u ll develop sharp powers of perception, then lead the way in breaking through the apathy n stagnation of society around u.Live with honesty n integrity n produce results. Set your sights high n fight to achieve ur goals wit ur whole being n spirit.

it all comes down to u. i hope u will not rely on others or wait 4 them to do smthing. Try to develop such a strong sense of responsibility that u can stand up to fiercest storms, confidently proclaiming, "i ll do it. Just watch me!". Pls confront reality, look it squarely in the face, n wit guts, wisdom n strength, challenge everything that lies ahead of u..

Good luck..

~~EnD a bAd HaBit~~

~~paT Yourself On ThE BaCk As yOu TaKe a SteP iN a New DiReaCtioN~~

hai..hai..

Havin so long period of holiday..n today started to work feel a bit lazy..n moody.. aiks.. but have to work also..today...feel so cold n cool..rite..no sun..coz raining day..hehe..rain rain go away come back another..

i think every1 also havin a bad habit..some ppl knw n some ppl wont release bout that..hehe..faster go find out..kick them away.. have ur think b4 to rid of ur bad habit?? im trying now..is there something you have been noticing about yourself that you want to improve?? It is admirable to want to rid yourself a bad habits, and best of all..it is always on attainable goal..! The key is perseverance..! Start turning over today, but do not put to much pressure on yourself about overnight perfection.. i know that It is not that simple to CHANGE...juz try to give yourself plenty of room to fall along the way..Pat yourself on the back as you that step in a new direction..dun b afaird be pround of your successes as well as the lesson you've learned from your mistakes...

but no one is prefect..rite..?? make urself as perfect as u can.. is up to ours want or dont want..
ppl n friend can give advice but to change or improve is up to us.. so...wat r u guys waiting 4.. try to find out ur bad habit n change..ur life ll b better..n happier..wahahahaa...
so..long ..bye...cheer up.. nite nite...

~~ContiNue~~

Helo..aiks..today i didt not mange to go YoGa.. :( my mom wake us up 7 am in the morning. Coz today v goin to do praying at telok pulai temple.. after praying v having breakfast togther.. i prefer not to take heavy food b4 exercise since i already ate a plate of noodles so i decide not to go yoga lo..

yday..actaully v plan at nite goin to KL 69 cafe 4 a drink.. coz it recomment frm a fren saying tat the cafe got ppl playing tarots card..hehe.. feel goin to try have a look..so b4 v goin to 69.. v plan to karaok at KTV NEWS 1st hehe..to fullfill the time..hehe v havin individual concert..Haha..wit 3 different type of song n language..1 sing cantonis version 1 mandrine n 1 malay..hehe..not bad la.. atfer tat v go to shopping awhile..coz my fren say she try to look 4 a cystal.. b4 goin to cystal shop..v stop awhile at a boutique..i bought a dress n a blouse.. aiks..waste $ again..hehe..after that v went to the cystal shop lo..i duno y those cystal so xpensive.. but some is really nice..i duno how to value it..v hanging short while..than v go to 69

V juz take bout 25min to reach 69 bistro..coz no jam highway line clear..haha.. coz v hav micheal wife as drive haha.. the place quite nice n comfortable..the food n drink is nice too..actually..our friend alreally book 4 us 9.30 4 tarots..but hor.. v wait till our turn is almost 11.30pm.. u c how many ppl leh.. hehe..mayb some ppl ask lots of question tats y..lo..

JENG..JENG..JENg.... actcually..sometime i not really believe in this kind of thing..hehe.. or mayb can say i scared kua.. scared if told us bad thing how ? I ll "Loh loh luen"..hehe..but still want to try..U see "JING KAK BO"? hehe.. but yday d feeling is really different i feel worth it lo.. " aiks..d "loh loh luen" yday it happen to me.. coz he telling lots of thing tats true..n those wat he/she say some need time to recall back..n once u recal u ll fill he/she really good..
aiks.. u guy go n hav a try la.. u ll get wat i say ..hehe.. (pls-mayb different ppl different types hehe) i juz share to u guys nia..ok.. if u guys try thn feel not true..hehe..dun BLAME me ok..haha..

aiks.. already half day finish.. i feel time not enaf..lots of thing i haven do haven try..but cant finish..Y??? i duno went i goin write again..but ll try to do..hehe..ok guys take care..c u..

~~Hi..Hi~~

Hi..hi..since so long havin tis blog but look like owaz empty nia..no new posting rite..hehe..this blog oso create frm 1 of my buddy pinky..she help me lots on computer knwleadge..coz i really blur n 0 knwleage on pc..veli out leh...? Yala!! Nowsaday duno how to use tis really out n cannot up grade ourself rite??? Thats y "SHE" create my blog name "Havenhaven". Everything haven.. hehe..
Aiks..today is 1st day hari raya..some of my fren goin to vocation holiday coz havin a long period of public holiday..but this yr i juz stay at home..Relaxing din go 4 any trip..BORING? Some of them might feel boring staying at home doin nothing..rite?But 4 me i feel great.. haha..relaxing..coz i use to work in long period n have less time to take gd rest..hehe..this is a chance to giv myself a gd gd rest..doin something that i normally no time to do..exp: Online chating wit fren,search on net,n now do posting on my blog..aiks..Wat A WONDERFULL DAY..
haha.. i manage to do this posting oso it help frm pinky..she teach me a lot till she "Beh ta han" ask me to kill her..haha..u guy knw y? i din realise that i hav change my id n password..aiks long story..so juz now i wish to login n try to do some posting ma..but cant login..so i go ask "HER" coz she create on behalf of me ma.. i double check wit her bout my id n password..she told..BUt hor..I told i try it but cant login oso..she kip asking whether i go change id bo..i say mm..nola..hehe..Suddenlly..She so smart hey..how u get the HB password again har.. opps..tis mean i mayb make a changes on that..haha u see how kiang is me..oh..no.. ia call.. "keh Kiang" WOW..at this moment the LION come.. she betul betul screw me up..till she surrender n ask me to kill her..haha..Bcoz of DASHBORAD..haha.. she ask me go check on dashborad..than i ask wat is dashboard ar..? haha..FUNNY bo..? from here u can see where is my level rite? hehe..NVM.. i will learn n pratice..but she warm me not to ask her liau wor..? how..u guy can help me ar..? hehe.. mayb today she AV kua..haha..no la..juz kidding..mayb i din really use my brain kua..nvm i ll wash my brain every sat..haha..get my point..????
Mmm..Today i wake up at 8am..coz i goin yoga class at 9am.. Wow..today..class damn high impact lo.. Chinese pilates is based on chinese qigong & pilates..n v do it in hot room wit 6 heater on n almost the room full of ppl juz left bout few place nia.. u guys can imagine how hot izzit???.. i get lots of sweat..n it fun havin so wet in d mornin..tommorow i will goin again..but different class..veli..kut lat leh..noli this 2 days nia la..hehe.. back to working day i hav no time to go..hehe..Actually is lazy la..okla..i think i need to stop here 1st is time 4 me to change baju..coz goin out soon wit her n her..hahaha..i updating u guys soon ok..
see u..